Sunday, March 3, 2024

[Ytterligare] ett fall. A woman refuses to leave a car, gets arrested. One of many cases (n>25 som far) of women's relational aggressiveness

This TikTok video shows a phenomena which is not reported by the mainstream media - a woman is stopped by the police, but refuses to leave the car. Therefore, she gets arrested. But she resists the arrest and is acting very condescending towards the Police officers. They put a special belt and a helmet on her. The medical staff made the assessment that she was mentally healthy (really?) and she was transported to custody/prison. General info about women's relational aggressiveness is presented along with some other cases from Finland and Sweden. It shows that women's relational aggressiveness is associated with mental disorders like Borderline Personality Disorder.In addition at the bottom of this article is a list of 31 similar cases. 6 pages.

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In this TikTok video, a woman who refuses to leave a car gets arrested. But she resists the arrest and is acting very condescending towards the Police officers. The video show that Police officers in this case are taking all measures to do things the right way.


When the Police officers eventually pull her out of the car, very gently, she screams hysterically, even though they don't hurt her.

As they hand-cuff her, she keeps screaming, and she continues doing that while they take her to the police car. When they try to place her in the car, she fights back. And continue to scream.

They eventually put her on the ground and put on a special belt, and a helmet, so that they can transport her safely to custody.

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They made an assessment that the woman was mentally healthy, so she was taken to prison.


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Is the woman's behavior an outlier, or common among women, and was she really mentally stable?

Women's relational aggressiveness (Crick and Grotpeter, 1995; Hyde, 2005) is a societal problem. In Finland, two Helsingfors Police officers have at different occasions said that:
  1. Finnish women's relational aggressiveness is a huge problem (april, 2022).
  2. women are the typical perpetrator of Domestic Violence (2024).
In November 2023, at a conference about Children's rights, Finland's child commissary said that psychological violence and lethal violence against children has increased. The host for the conference said that 40% of school children have reported that they have been subject to psychological violence at home. That's relational aggressiveness which is typically a female phenomena.

From several case studies in Swedish presented on this blog, starting with [Ytterligare] ett fall (In Swedish) ... it was possible to conclude that women who express relational aggressiveness, for example by starting custodial conflicts, suffer from mental disorders, specifically Borderline Personality Disorder (Ruffalo, 2024 Zalewski et al. 2014), and that social workers supported, or coached, these women, and that court personnel eventually awarded them sole custody of the children.

The paradox, science based studies show that:

children who grow up with both parents or the father, have better emotional and social adjustment and cognitive development compared to children who grow up with a single mother (Baumrind, 1966Calkins och Keane, 2009Gopnik, 2016; Hart och Risley, 1995MacRay, 2021Moffitt et al. 2001Rolle et al. 2019Sethna, 2017; Vieno et al. 20092014Österberg, 2004).

Domestic violence has the following distribution:
  • Physical domestic violence - women are responsible for slightly more than half of occurrences and injuries.

  • Lethal domestic violence equally unlikely (0.000005) affect children, men or women.

  • Psychological domestic violence (relational aggressiveness) - typically female.
(Archer,20002004Bates, Graham-Kevan och Archer , 2014Bates och Graham-Kevan, 2016Bates, 2018Bates, Kaye, Pennington och Hamlin, 2019Bergkvist, 2002Crick och Grotpeter, 1995Hyde, 2005Thornton et al. 2012).

Listen to Dr Elizabeth Bates: Intimate Partner Violence (34 minuter).

But advocates for the feminist movement rejects the science and claim that women's domestic violence should be attributed to men (Hellberg, 2022; Lundgren et al. 2001).

In 2005, Uppsala University banned the main author of Lundgren et al. 2001, professor Eva Lundgren, a strong proponent for the idea that women's domestic violence should be attributed on men, from teaching and supervising (Holm, 2011).

A current study also shows that social workers do not use science based methods (Bergström et al. 2022).

In Finland and Sweden, instead of reporting relational aggressive women, and thereby helping children, social workers isolate children with their mothers at so-called shelters. But in reality, the social workers call these shelters “Institutions for women with mental challenges”.

In May 2022, Finnish media reported about a mother who was helped by social workers to isolate a boy from his father at their institution. According to the social workers these are institutions for women with mental issues. The mother then murdered the boy by poisoning him. Thanks to personell at Helsingfors social services, and likely Helsingfors police department as well är court personell, the boys life ended at 12 years of age (Björkkvist, 2022).

In September, 2022, Swedish media reported about a similar case. Personnel at the social service had helped a mother with mental issues to isolate two little boys from their father at such an institution. Later, to prevent the children from having contact with their father, the mother murdered the two young children by forcing them onto a railway track where a train smashed them to death. They probably just longed for their father (Ohlsson, 2022).

Here's a list with cases (n>36) of women's aggression (Österberg, 2023 a (In Swedish)).

Here's another list with cases (>40) of women's, often mothers, lethal violence (Österberg, 2023 a (In Swedish)).

Note. Even though the woman in the TikTok video was considered to be mentally healthy, one can suspect that she had some diagnosis.

More cases: 12, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31

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